- Have students write out their definition of conflict.
- Distribute or read our definition of conflict: Conflict is a struggle or tension through which the parties involved perceive a threat to their needs, interests or concerns.
- Have students write out or discuss their reaction to our definition of conflict and how it was the same and different from their own definition.
- Have students watch the Conflict Introduction Video.
Sources of Conflict
- Explain that various factors can lead to conflict, which derive from different sources of conflict. Present the Sources of Conflict handout to the students, and have them watch the related video explaining each source.
- Ask your students to think about which sources are difficult to notice.
- Ask them to consider the types of situations in which each source of conflict occurs.
- What are clues that a specific source is involved in a conflict?
- Let your students know that in the future, as they are trying to analyze a conflict they are involved in, they can think back to these clues in order to aid them in figuring out the sources involved.
Have students watch the following video clips and identify the main source of conflict in each situation.
- Ask your students why it is important to break down a conflict into its sources. Answers may include that it is helpful to know everything a conflict is about in order to resolve it in a satisfactory way for all involved. Also, if people try to tackle the easiest issues first and are successful at resolving them, they have a basis of trust and goodwill with one another on which to work on resolving the harder issues.
- Have students write about or discuss an actual conflict they experienced or witnessed at school.
- Ask students to identify the sources of conflict in the situations they described and to think about which source might be easiest to resolve first and why this may be so.
- Pair students up and have them share their conflicts and sources, giving each other feedback.
- Discuss the Conflict Spiral and the Conflict Cycle and contrast them with one another.
- Let students know that conflict resolution has this cyclical pattern: Agitation to Escalation to Recovery. While it doesn't always flow exactly in this pattern (for instance, there may be times when the involved parties flux between the Escalation and the Recovery phases), it is important to see conflict in this perspective.
- Have your students watch the below video illustrating the conflict cycle.
- Have students read the scenarios and fill in the conflict spiral stages on this worksheet.
- Have students write next to each paragraph which stage of the conflict cycle the scenario is displaying in this worksheet.
- Let your students know that the idea is to turn a conflict into a cycle, rather than a spiral.